Thursday, July 17, 2025

 


DEAR NARCISSIST,


YOU MIGHT FOOL HUNDREDS OF PEOPLE INTO BELIEVING THAT YOU'RE SOMETHING WHICH IN REALITY YOU'RE NOT — BUT I WILL ALWAYS BE THAT ONE PERSON WHO FIGURED YOU OUT AND KNOWS WHO YOU ARE UNDER ALL THAT BULLSHIT.


I saw through the mask you wear so effortlessly — the charm, the fake empathy, the carefully crafted lies. You fooled the crowd, but not me. While others were applauding your performance, I was quietly watching the truth leak out in moments you thought no one noticed. I witnessed the manipulation, the gaslighting, the emotional games, and the twisted need for control.

You hide behind a façade of perfection, but I saw the cracks. You wanted power, admiration, and loyalty, but gave nothing real in return. You broke people down to feel taller. You projected your own darkness onto others just to avoid facing it yourself.

But here's the thing — your illusion doesn’t work on me anymore. I don’t crave your validation, I don’t believe your lies, and I no longer dance to your toxic rhythm.

I may not have exposed you to the world, but I exposed you to yourself. And that’s something you can never erase.

So keep playing your role, Narcissist. But just know…

I know exactly who you are.

 


A narcissist paints a picture of themselves being the victim or innocent in all aspects. No matter what they've done, they will twist the story until it seems like they were the ones hurt, betrayed, or mistreated. They’re skilled at rewriting history—leaving out key details, exaggerating others, and spinning their actions in ways that make them look like the hero or the helpless one. They’ll tell anyone who listens their version of the story first, because they know that whoever tells the story first often controls the narrative.
They can't stand being held accountable, so when you speak up or confront them with the truth, they won’t reflect—they’ll retaliate. They’ll act offended, claim you're attacking them, or say you're "crazy" or "too sensitive." They’ll deflect, gaslight, and sometimes even play the victim harder just to avoid taking any real responsibility. That’s why dealing with a narcissist is so emotionally exhausting—because they’ll do everything in their power to protect the illusion they’ve created.
But the truth doesn’t stay buried forever. What is done in the dark will come to light. You may not see justice immediately. You may be painted as the villain for a while. But time has a way of peeling back the mask they wear. Eventually, people begin to see the patterns. The inconsistencies in their stories. The trail of broken relationships, manipulated friends, and emotional wreckage they always leave behind.
Time has a way of showing people’s true colors, and when it does, the narcissist’s carefully constructed lies will start to crumble. The same people they once fooled will slowly begin to connect the dots. And the truth, no matter how long it takes, will always rise to the surface.
So if you’re dealing with someone like this, don’t waste your energy trying to expose them to everyone. Stay grounded in your truth. Let their actions speak louder than your words. Eventually, their mask will fall—and when it does, the real story will be undeniable.

 


 


 


 


 


 


"Never underestimate the power of a woman who wins her battles alone. She’s not just a survivor—she’s a one-woman revolution, a walking, talking, firestorm in human form. She’s the kind of woman who can turn heartbreak into high heels and grief into gasoline. She doesn’t just bounce back, she explodes forward, leaving a trail of awe and scorched earth behind her. She’s not waiting for a knight in shining armor because, darling, she’s too busy building her own damn castle out of the stones life hurled at her.
She’s the woman who’s been left out, counted out, and talked down to, but she never let it shrink her. She took every single underestimation and used it to sharpen her claws. For every door slammed in her face, she built a new one and painted it red—so the world would know she came through it on her own terms. She doesn’t need a cheer squad or a savior—she’s her own hype woman, her own best friend, her own fiercest advocate. And trust me, the applause she gives herself is deafening.
People love to whisper about the woman who walks alone. They say she’s too much, too loud, too opinionated, too independent. But here’s the punchline—they’re right. She’s too much for those who dream small, who settle for less, who fear the wildness of a woman who answers to no one. She doesn’t owe anyone an apology for her ambition, her confidence, or the way she takes up space. In fact, she dares you to try and make her smaller. Spoiler alert: you’ll lose.
Every solo victory she claims is a slap in the face to the doubters, the haters, the ones who thought she’d crumble in silence. She didn’t just survive—she thrived. She didn’t just endure, she conquered. Her scars aren’t hidden; they’re flaunted like trophies. She’s the living embodiment of “watch me do it anyway,” with a wink and a smile that says, “You never stood a chance against me.” She is proof that a woman alone is not a woman lacking—she is a woman unleashed.
Let’s get one thing straight: her confidence isn’t arrogance, it’s the result of dragging herself out of darkness so many times, she glows in the dark now. She’s cocky because she earned it. She’s fiery because she had to be. She’s bold because playing small never got her anywhere. She doesn’t need validation from you, your friends, or society’s checklist. She is the checklist. She’s the standard. She’s the plot twist no one saw coming and the main character no one can ignore.
If you cross her, don’t expect her to break down—expect her to rise up, taller than before, laughter echoing in the face of your doubt. She won’t beg, she won’t shrink, she won’t dim her own light just to soothe your fragile ego. She’s the kind of woman who’ll outlast your gossip, outsmart your games, and outshine your expectations. She’s not cruel, but she’s not soft, either. She learned that being gentle won’t stop wolves from circling, so she grew her own fangs.
Her sarcasm is sharp enough to draw blood and her wit is quick enough to leave you speechless. She’s not afraid to call out hypocrisy, to challenge the status quo, to laugh in the face of mediocrity. If she’s labeled “bitchy,” she wears it like a designer label—because being nice never changed the world, and she’s here to set it on fire. She’s the woman who doesn’t just shatter glass ceilings—she turns the shards into stilettos.
Don’t mistake her loyalty for weakness, or her kindness for submission. She will go to war for those she loves, but she refuses to fight for anyone’s acceptance. She knows her worth in a world that tries to discount it. She’s not afraid to be alone because she knows solitude is the breeding ground for her magic. She’s comforted by her own company, empowered by her own voice, and unfazed by empty rooms and silent phones.
She’s not interested in being someone’s better half—she’s already whole. She’s not here to be rescued, adored, or controlled. She’s here to dominate, disrupt, and dazzle. Her ambition burns brighter than your insecurities. Her dreams are bigger than your doubts. Don’t try to cage her, she’s already burned through the bars. Don’t try to tame her—she’ll turn your leash into a crown.
So, the next time you see her walking alone, head held high, eyes blazing with intent, don’t pity her—fear her, respect her, and if you’re wise, learn from her. Because a woman who wins her battles alone is the most dangerous, dazzling, and unstoppable force you’ll ever encounter. She’s not just rewriting her story; she’s setting the whole damn narrative on fire. And when the world finally catches on, it’ll realize she was the hero it never deserved—but the legend it will never forget."
-Steve De'lano Garcia